Ice cream. The Key to a Woman’s Heart ( and 4 other keys )

Memoirs on Love by Jason Traylor
4 min readMay 23, 2021

Ice Cream is a metaphor for the simplicity to make a woman happy.

How can you not want to click and read this article with a title like this? I honestly thought of the concept of this article on the way to see my beautiful niece who is four yrs old.

Hazel loves chocolate ice cream. It makes her happy, and she’s starting to realize Uncle Jason is gonna come through with ice cream more often than naught.

I always go back to the simplicities of love when I think about an article. The purity of it. I’ll use ice cream as more of a metaphor in this piece for love or some faction of a gesture of love.

“ Gestures, in love, are incomparably more attractive, effective, and valuable than words.”

-Francois Rabelais

I don’t think women are as complex as thought by men. All they need is a man to bring them ice cream from time to time. Am I right? Or maybe flowers on a random Tuesday in August. It’s sometimes the thought behind the action rather than the action itself.

Let’s get to the point and talk about 4 keys to a woman’s heart. 4 Flavors of Ice Cream for the soul.

Listen to Her

French Vanilla

“What did I just say then?” These are words you don’t want to hear in a relationship. Do you actively listen to her? If you can’t make the effort to listen to her for 5 to 10 minutes it will automatically trigger her to feel like you don’t care and that she’s unloved. Your special someone needs that specific flavor of listening to her ice cream. It’s important to her. It should be important to you. The great thing is it’s not hard.

Focus on what she’s saying and how she’s saying it. Be reflective and check for understanding. Show interest. If she says Suzie at work is such a biatch and is telling you why she thinks this, you need to be in agreeance mode. Hell yea Suzie is biatch!!

Another thing you can do to ensure she has your full attention is to make sure the setting is right. Make it a big deal. I can see myself jokingly doing something where she begins to talk and in a panic, I turn off absolutely everything and hide phones under cushions, and grabbing a…