Sex Is Not All We Real Men Want

Memoirs on Love by Jason Traylor
3 min readJun 28, 2021

Being sexy and attractive is great, but some real men do want more.

There’s this notion out there that all it takes to please a man is for a woman to be attractive, sexy, and just to remove her clothes, and that’s it. NO. Generalizing, NO.

The only thing that works for is little boys.

Now please, I’m not saying that being sexy isn’t a huge turn-on. It is. A woman who has confidence is very appealing. For myself and other men, an attractive woman is great.., but for relationships, we need more.

Let’s roll through some traits a real man wants in his lady.

Strong Woman

I want a strong woman. A boss. A Queen! I want a woman who will refuse to put up with my shit when I’m slipping. I’m not talking about someone to play mommy to me. I want an equal partner. Strong women are sexy as hell. I want you to have an opinion; I want you to share that opinion. I am not alone with my feelings on this; other men feel me. I want a woman that’s capable of handling herself and not letting others walk all over her. Timid and meek is out. A woman that is willing to get her hands dirty is a turn-on.

Salad Eating Woman Are Out

I love a woman that has food passions. Like she loves sushi. Or can’t live without…

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